A Pimp Dispenses Relationship Advice?

Now that he’s reconciled with his wife, it appears that Jamal “The Prince Pimp of Baltimore” Bryant is dispensing sex advice to the men of his church.

Jamal hosted a “bible study” for the men of his church entitled “How To Love A Black Man” – and he was assisted by a woman who is a New York Times Best Selling Author by the name of “Zane”. What, you’ve never heard of Zane before? Well, Zane writes very graphic and very detailed erotic literature (I linked to wikipedia because I can’t link to her website – without putting a parental disclaimer in place) – and she produces a softcore porn show on Cinemax. 

Interestingly, you can’t find many details about this event – although you can see the details of all of the other “Men’s Month” events on the website. Pimp Jamal has been taking some flack for having a lady who writes dirty books address the men of his congregation so maybe he tried to downplay Zane’s participation.

Anyway, I find it odd that a man with so many sexual demons found it necessary to host a “bible study” with a woman who writes smut. If you recall, Jamal is an adulterer and a “baby daddy” to infants outside of his marriage who (allegedly) likes girls in their late teens.

Here’s an official description of Pimp Jamal’s series – and I just had to emphasize interesting notes in bold:

A woman doesn’t need to work harder to please a man because every woman has what it takes to get the love of any man… And there is nothing else better than a BLACK MAN AND WOMAN IN LOVE. The problem lies in how to love him, keep him and understand him.

The role of a woman who is connected to a man of destiny is to condition and prepare him for his opportunity. Be sensitive to his dreams, and help him shine without minimizing him even though you make more money. Invest in making him look good.

When a Black Man captures the heart of a lover, he longs for pleasure not pressure. He was never conditioned for chaos, conflict or confrontation. Dr. Bryant delivers effective relationship advice with wit on how to pamper, feed, and love your man. Discover how you can condition your man and freely check him; assist him without him feeling disrespected and demeaned.

Every woman has near limitless power to give and get the very best spiritually, physically, mentally, and emotionally in a relationship with a Black Man.

Are you kidding me? Is this idiot essentially trying to compete with Iceberg Slim in telling women how to keep dogs like him around them?

Wow – maybe if someone had told Mrs. Pimp of Baltimore of her responsibilities in “satisfying and nurturing” Jamal, then he wouldn’t feel the need to seek “comfort” outside of his marriage with young girls in his congregation.

I’m sure there were men at this “bible study” who were earnestly seeking the Lord  – yet they found themselves being “taught” by a pimp and a Jezebel:

1 Peter 2:11-12 (New American Standard Bible)

11(A)Beloved, (B)I urge you as (C)aliens and strangers to abstain from (D)fleshly lusts which wage (E)war against the soul.

 12(F)Keep your behavior excellent among the Gentiles, so that in the thing in which they (G)slander you as evildoers, they may because of your good deeds, as they observe them, (H)glorify God (I)in the day of [a]visitation.

Could somebody get close enough to Pimp Jamal to remind him of what he’s supposed to be doing as a preacher.

Oh, and tell him to go sit down somewhere until he can learn how to preach the Word and not present his fleshly philosophical garbage.

21 Responses to “A Pimp Dispenses Relationship Advice?”

  1. 1 gcmwatch October 31, 2008 at 5:19 pm

    Blinking in utter disbelief.

    Looking again, but still in shock.

    How is this possible? These people have gone stark raving mad. Every act becomes more brazen, more public, more profane.

    What’s next JB, a live strip show and wet bar?

  2. 2 EnochWalked October 31, 2008 at 8:57 pm

    Praise the LORD!

    Brother Speaking Truth,

    If this ain’t Herod Antipas, Herodias, and her dancing daughter YEAR 2008, then what else is this? Only fools who do not have the Holy Ghost dwelling within them partake/support/pay/endorse….in this DEBAUCHERY!(Big word) This is an abomination! I am with you Pastor GCM, Jamal Harrison-Bryant is the classic example of a reprobate mind! My first impression from the Spirit is that this a money maker/move shaker….gadget to draw…weak-minded souls…The Economy is really hurting the Pimps! Hallelujah!

    I would not be surprised if he carries a glock(did I spell that right?) on him at all times. These type of people(Jamal and Zane) will cut your head off(modern term put a cap in your…) if you confront them publicly like John the Baptist rebuked King Herod and Herodias to protect their image, standing, and reputation.


    P.S. Now, this blatant example, my brothers and sisters in CHRIST, is a great example of the spirit of Jezebel in operation in the Church. Jane or Zane is a Jezebel leading a flock of souls astray to another jesus! The false pastor, Jamal Harrison Bryant, is a Ahab….for Ahab did evil in the sight of the LORD….Amen! This is a spiritual marriage(Jamal-Ahab over his church) and Zane(Jezebel of sex books)-Y’all catch the revelation…working in unison to teach Sex to the Men! YIKES!

    This Zane(Jezebel) is usurping authority with SEX! This is the type of woman that Paul was warning about in 1 Timothy 2:12 TO NOT TEACH THE Men of GOD or even the Christian Women for that matter or any Christian…NOT the Holy mothers and daughters of the LORD! Do you all see the difference that I was TRYING to eloquently explain last month before y’all sicked your big dog GaryV on me! (I am not offended, mad or bitter, took me a little while but I’m over it…I STILL LOVE YOU Brother Speaking Truth, Independent Conservative, and I LOVE ALL OF YOU AND I have to LOVE GaryV too(It’s a commandment to love those that revile you)…GOD will judge…trust me…Don’t be surprised if any of you have a Damascus road experience…JUST KIDDING or am I????)

    Well anyway, I had to get that off my chest(is that biblical?) or blow off some hot air?

    Just wanted to let y’all know that I’m back! Y’all thought y’all could rid of me didn’t Ya! Ha! You cannot get rid of family!

    Have a blessed Weekend Brother Speaking Truth! Love Ya Bro!
    I’ll send you a love offering when my harvest comes in! Smile.

  3. 3 Douglas K. Adu-Boahen November 1, 2008 at 9:08 am

    ST, tell me this is April 1 in advance?

  4. 4 speaking truth November 1, 2008 at 10:14 am

    gcmwatch – like Long and Jakes before him, Pimp Jamal is simply letting his private demons out of the closet during the light of day. Soon, they’ll have a “happy hour mixer” after club services to initiate hook-ups.

    enochwalked – we all knew you’d be back…we can’t keep you quiet for too long 🙂

    Douglas – saly, this is true…and you’re going to see more and more “revelations” like this in the coming days so gird yourself young man.

    As I stated in many comments prior, nothing surprises me about these pimps anymore. What would REALLY knock me over is if they just stood flat footed and preached the Word from the bible itself – no entertainment, no fluff, no clownsuits – just plain Gospel.

  5. 5 CiCi November 1, 2008 at 10:45 am


    Now you know that I try to look at things from various perspectives and give people the benefit of the doubt.

    But this right here…..I can’t even begin to wrap my brain around. Zane? What in the world? How? What Christian minister/teacher/pastor/whoever would have her as an example, teacher for Godly Christian relationship? A writer of erotic literature — what place does she have in the house of God teaching God’s people. Is she going to recommend her books for careful study? That is the last thing a church full of single men and women need — or married ones for that matter– in today’s society. What could he be thinking?

    This mindset is truly demonic. When we as the church cannot maintain a separation between the secular and the sacred we are in big trouble. But, this is what happens when everyone feels that they must justify their sin. Real men and women, whether they are saved or not but especially Christians, have the integrity to say right is right and wrong is wrong regardless of what their own personal inclinations and activities happen to be.

    I am just amazed at even the thought of this. And I won’t even broach the subject of the unmitigated gall that he must have to even think about teaching on this subject…..

    Help God!!! Woe is me……..

  6. 6 DestinysLady November 1, 2008 at 12:03 pm

    Jamal Bryant has lost his mind! Zane has no business standing before the people of God as an authority on relationships. How can a woman who makes a living celebrating illicit sex, teach women in the Church about loving a black man? Jamal needs to repent! To every pastor who would defile the pulpit to satisfy your own lusts, in the words of Shakespeare’s Mercucio, “A plague on all your houses!”

    Nevertheless, I have this against you: You tolerate that woman Jezebel…By her teaching she misleads my servants into sexual immorality and the eating of food sacrificed to idols. I have given her time to repent of her immorality, but she is unwilling. So I will cast her on a bed of suffering, and I will make those who commit adultery with her suffer intensely, unless they repent of her ways. I will strike her children dead. Then all the churches will know that I am He who searches hearts and minds, and I will repay each of you according to your deeds.
    Revelation 2:18-20

  7. 7 naturalsystah November 1, 2008 at 12:13 pm

    This is on par with Juanita Bynum and Thomas Weeks teaching on love and marriage when they’d been together only a few years.

    And sadly, many will listen to the likes of them and JHB.

  8. 8 Douglas K. Adu-Boahen November 1, 2008 at 4:03 pm

    That is horrible. Just horrible. People wake up – JHB IS EVIL!

  9. 9 Lavrai November 1, 2008 at 4:15 pm

    Wow! I used to work in bookstore a few years ago while in college and I remember seeing those Zane books. One day decided to flip through one to see why they were so popular. Um, nasty! I don’t know how a “man of GOD” can bind himself to such a wordy author — there’s no way she has the Holy Spirit dwelling with or in you if you’re writing filth like that (assuming she’s calling herself “Christian”). No way. This is odd, to say the least — but then, again, I’m not familiar with this man’s ministry.

  10. 10 speaking truth November 1, 2008 at 5:02 pm

    CiCi – you said:

    Now you know that I try to look at things from various perspectives and give people the benefit of the doubt

    I had to chuckle at your comment CiCi because I know you’re more of a “the glass is half-full” kind of person, but I could just picture your face while reading about Pimp Jamal’s latest venture – 😆 – priceless!

    naturalsystah – you said:

    This is on par with Juanita Bynum and Thomas Weeks teaching on love and marriage when they’d been together only a few years

    There used to be a video on youtube of Weeks and Bynum describing how they talk dirty to each other during sex – and this was at a church conference! The video has been removed (Bynum strongarmed the account holder and they eventually lost their youtube account). So, those two vipers went far beyond pretending to be happily married.

    lavrai – Zane is what my childhood buddies would call a “freak”, and she’s not shy to share her sexual imagination through her “work”. Imaging clinging to the Lord after haveing dealt with addiction to pornography (like many brothers out there) – and coming to church to run smack dab into it!

    Like the new avitar BTW…

  11. 11 naturalsystah November 2, 2008 at 7:40 pm

    Black men should be insulted – judging by what you say about Zane’s books, the conference would be mainly concentrating on the sexual side of marriage – as though that’s all there is to a man or a healthy marriage… how one-dimensional.

  12. 12 Melvin Jones November 2, 2008 at 10:19 pm

    Hey, are you people forgetting that this is the guy who took the men to see “I Think I Love My Wife” with Chrs Rock and (sigh) Gloria Torres? The fact that he is a Baby Daddy to several women about the country and the congregation is silly enough to keep him has probably assured him of the fact that he can do pretty much anything. If nothing else, the men will follow so they can be like him.

  13. 13 speaking truth November 2, 2008 at 10:27 pm


    First, welcome back to cyberspace! We’re glad to see that the pimps let you off with a warning (again) 😀

    You’re right – I TOTALLY forgot about the class field trip to see a movie about a man tempted by a Jezebel to cheat on his wife…all the while Pimp Jamal was continually tipping out on “First Lady”!

    Now my head is starting to hurt 🙄

  14. 14 GaryV November 3, 2008 at 1:09 am

    Enoch,I most certainly do not revile you, and no one “sicced” me on you. If you’re going to present certain types of doctrine publicly,it leaves you in the unenviable position of having to defend it publicly.

    Don’t see me as an enemy. The wounds of friends are faithful, and truth is the Balm of Gilead. Peace brother.

  15. 15 truthofgod November 3, 2008 at 8:23 am

    Well, it’s becoming more and more clear that the Lord is making a dividing line between the wheat and the tares. Anyone with an ounce of discernment (saved or not) will tell you that this is not suitable for Godliness. But, i’m sure that you will find someone (professing Christ) to violently apologize for this filth and trash, which is why he will continue in this deception with no remorse. For shame

  16. 16 Bro Peter November 3, 2008 at 9:17 am

    I found it very interesting that in his summary of the class that he didn’t say anything about both husband and wife sumbitting to Christ first. You can be the nicest women in the world but if I am sumbitting to christ and she is not then there will be some holes in places.

    Because of preachers like Jamal and other PULPIT pimps it actually hurts the people that preach DOCTRINE. Because now we have to unscramble their mind about the fact that because it’s 2008 you will get a double blessing. I never read that in the bible and it makes no sense. We miss out on our Blessings because we are not putting GOD first. Also this goes against what the bible says about how God will lead us to the right Pastor. People today are just going to the person who they like to hear most God is no longer leading people there just following the crowds.

    It’s sad but I always keep Matthew 7:21-23 on my mind. Jesus might not know many of the folks that are preaching in this day and time.

    Keep up this site BRO.

    Peace and Blessings

  17. 17 Independent Conservative November 3, 2008 at 10:55 am

    Jamal is the embodiment of the following:
    2 Timothy 3:13 (New American Standard Bible)

    13 But evil men and impostors will proceed from bad to worse, deceiving and being deceived.

    Take issue with my stance against some who toss women into the pulpit over men all some of you wish. But Jamal’s mess was evident when he was improperly promoting Vashti McKenzie.

    Now Jamal has simply kicked it up a notch! From bad, to worse!

  18. 18 Nat Turner November 3, 2008 at 11:06 am

    Wow. What’s next? Manage-a-trio night at Empowerment?

  19. 19 gcmwatch November 3, 2008 at 11:13 am

    “Because now we have to unscramble their mind about the fact that because it’s 2008 you will get a double blessing.”

    Bro Peter look at Zachariah 9:9-17 for context.

  20. 20 Caught Thinking November 4, 2008 at 4:23 pm


    What’s the problem? After all he’s just following in the footsteps of Weeks and Bynum with their “teach me how to love you” junk. Well I guess she never did. Anyway, in all seriousness, the problem with sales is never the “used car sales-man”. The problem is always the gullible and desperate people. Their desperation blinds them from reason. Zane could be a full our porn star and some would find away to say this is acceptable.

    Today we need to be reminded of the message to the church in Pergamum. We need standars, we need to stand up and vote. We need to vote with our feet and wallets.

    This is a shame. God is aware.

  21. 21 NOTHETRUTH6 January 28, 2009 at 9:27 am

    Judgment starts in the house of God. This is the manifestation of the “itching ears” the Word tells us that people will have. It’s really quite simple, carnality breeds carnality. You shall know the tree by the fruit that it bears. What I attach myself to outwardly is what’s been inside all along. It’s no different than Creflo Dollar identifying with Ludacris in the “Welcome to Atlanta” video. Every car that they drove in that video belonged to Creflo. His people are taught to “defend” him in his mess. He’s standing outside of World Changers when they roll up on him for a close-up shot in the video. He’s standing there like “yeah, I’m the MAN.” This is my first time seeing this blog. We must continue to expose sin with the truth of the Word. The Word is Truth!

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